After bickering with a close friend, does it take you a long time to come to good terms?

...Usually i tend to have a connection with my friends, but then they are those who tend to get on your nerves. usually after the fight is over, i realize life is just too short to have a grudge. im usually the first one to make amends. Its weird, no matter what was said or who was wrong, i think people are drawn to me and they cant blame me for long? Sometimes i'll just loose my damn mind, but people still seem to overcome that lol. Idk, i hate just having something negative on my conscience, so i always just have to "step up", dont matter who was wrong.